We all hear it and read it every day – your work/job should be something you’re passionate about. As much as we all want to follow our bliss, many people don’t know what that is for them. This is understandable. Throughout our lives we’re told what it means to be successful, and which paths will lead us to fulfillment. But upon arrival, we realize we were following the path of someone else’s dream. So how do we switch directions and head toward our dream?
First, you have to remember what makes you happy. Go back as far as your memory will allow. You will find clues in the games you liked the most, and the kids you played with. Did you create neighborhood newspapers, or set up elaborate lemonade stands during the summer? Did you like putting on plays with your friends? We’re you the actor? Or the producer, joyfully bossing your friends around? Did you draw and paint pictures, or create costumes from your mom’s discards? What you loved doing as a kid is what you still love, just maybe in another form.
Once you determine the “what”, spend some time figuring out why you liked these activities. Was it the problem solving, the creativity, the organizing? It may take a little time, but as you get closer to the truth, you’ll know it, because you’ll feel energized and engaged.
The final step is simple, but not necessarily easy. Step onto your path. Changing the direction of your life is scary, but it can be done. Approach the process as if it were a marathon, not a sprint. Maybe take on a hobby or side job that reflects the true you. That may be enough for you to be fulfilled. As your comfort level increases, though, you may find yourself wanting more. And now that you’re on the right path, you’ll know what to do, because when we’re in touch with our true desires, we’re also in touch with our instincts. So take the first steps, and the rest will fall into place.
